Sunday, May 10, 2009

The Return of the ex

I had been ignoring his emails...... the last one read "can you call me or should i call you?"... he didnt have my new number
I gave in, i hid my number and called him
He wanted to understand why we traded insults the last time we spoke. If i really hated him
I said no, im trying to move on, just like you've done

He said he missed having me in his life, hes been depressed since i stopped talking to him. He feels he has a lot of issues and maybe see a therapist about them. He's sorry if he ever offended me
I said dude, if? you DID offend me, so accept responsibility
He said im amazing, how can i have so much effect on him. I replied, its cuz i am a great woman filled with worth....

We talked for four hours, he was on his best behaviour. He mentioned he wasnt seeing anyone, and he probably will never. Really none of my business. He told me al hes been doing, we laughed, and talked mostly about random things. I apologised for all the hurtful things i said, and he did the same
He asked me to go on a date with him next weekend. i agreed, no harm intended......

Throughout the course of the conversation, all i could think was "what did i see? i cant believe i used to love this guy"

Seems im finally on the road to recovery, getting the closure i need. i shudder at the thought of us getting back together. I cant go down the road again. Maybe we can be friends now and nothing more....

Rethots
was right in his comment, they always do come back and when they do, its too late....

13 comments:

  1. Hmm, exes do always seem to have a hold on our lives, especially if they were the first. Good to see you are moving on though.

    He said im amazing, how can i have so much effect on him. I replied, its cuz i am a great woman filled with worth....That's where it all starts from I think, accepting you for who your are and your worth.

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  2. I'm glad you're moving on for real. He will never have the chance to hurt you like that again. Too little too late huh..

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  3. Awwwwwwww im glad uv finally had ur closure
    Just like the saying "u dnt kno wot u have until its gone".The guy lost his chance too bad 4 him.

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  4. Good to know you're moving on.
    ...Know this, things can only get better.

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  5. speaking as one who has gone back when it was too late...I agree....and I'm glad you're moving on

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  6. Yes tell him its too late to apologise...

    I guess it was not meant to be in the first place

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  7. You are army strong babes!
    Im happy you have gotten to the point you are now.
    In the end they are really not worth it.

    "He said im amazing, how can i have so much effect on him. I replied, its cuz i am a great woman filled with worth...."

    YOU GO GIRL!!!!!

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  8. Yes filled with worth you are! You are on the right path now. Keep it going and never look back.

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  9. ....after all has been said, whatelse?
    Label him as experience. At least, you have learnt something while it lasted.

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  10. yes, it's good 4 u to move on, n don't turn into his counselor; might be dangerous.

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  11. time to do you! Glad you got closure girl! Keep on keeping on xxx

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  12. glad to know u are getting over him... exes are the worst things to get over

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