Wednesday, June 10, 2009

3 months

I have been celibate for three months.... 12 weeks of resisting temptations, of not indulging in one night stands..... of not thinking about sex
Of not indulging in Pornography or Masturbation

I even threw away my vibrator

12 weeks of discovering who i really am without sex

And then the Ex shows up....

I should not have told you i was hungry that night, then you wouldnt have been so nice to bring me pancakes at 3am. even when my house is 30mins drive from yours

Oh well, you came over, i ate the food and we started fooling around

And my 3 months went down the drain......
We had another huge fight and we are currently not even speaking again
Damn u!!!!

I am going to pull myself up and get back on track... i promised myself i was going to try not to have sex again till i am sure it is with someone that deserves it....

Is it true that an Ex always has a free pass in sleeping with you?
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18 comments:

  1. juiceegalJune 10, 2009 at 12:12 PM

    First!!!!!!!!!

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  2. juiceegalJune 10, 2009 at 12:14 PM

    No its not true........it does not have to be that way.Big sister u have to be strong,rememba the words of advice u gave me,wel i put it to use and its working.I know its not easy but u have to avoid the ex completely.

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  3. BrokeassJune 10, 2009 at 2:16 PM

    Nope he only has a free pass if u let him.

    Flee all appearances of evil. And exes

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  4. Nice AnonJune 10, 2009 at 3:00 PM

    Only if you do with the intention of getting satisfaction and nothing else. Other than that.. Okafor's law is irrelevant then.

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  5. SulihpJune 10, 2009 at 3:45 PM

    nope! no free pass, exes throw away their 'tickets' when there is a break up, and it can't be redeemed.
    Don't be too hard on urself, ur strength shows when u are able to look past this and start again with determination. goodluck.

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  6. RocJune 10, 2009 at 4:05 PM

    Lol @ free pass..
    Is he entering a stadium?

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  7. Naked soulJune 10, 2009 at 6:13 PM

    @ juiceegal: im happy my advice is working for u..... im going to be strong

    @ Brokeass: ur right....im fleeing!

    @ Nice anon: pls enlighten me on okafors law

    @ sulihp: thank u...... ur right, all privileges end with the break up

    @ rocnaija: ur so hilarious and honest.... i aint no stadium so to hell with him

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  8. Nice AnonJune 10, 2009 at 7:01 PM

    Okafor's law states that once someone hits it they will always have access to it. It doesn't always happen like that only if you let it.

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  9. AdaezeJune 11, 2009 at 6:09 AM

    U should never have allowed the guy to come..let it be a lesson, u know ur weak for him , so just try to keep away if u want to succeed? best wishes

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  10. BSNCJune 11, 2009 at 1:17 PM

    He has a free pass only if you let him.. Get back on track girl and this time stay focused..

    all the best.

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  11. Non-nonJune 13, 2009 at 7:28 PM

    It happens, dont beat yourself about it and focus on the way forward!

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  12. AnonymousJune 21, 2009 at 10:22 AM

    Perhaps its happened - and now you know one more way not to succumb?

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  13. m1keJune 22, 2009 at 5:25 AM

    i think you should avoid any of his pranks! any moves at all! so a girl with like 5 exes what do you want her to do?

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  14. Fabulo-laJuly 11, 2009 at 6:36 PM

    Naked soul where are you?
    Shey u r ok o?






    *Formerly Brokeass*

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  15. Alter EgoJuly 13, 2009 at 9:35 AM

    Hmm..... Looks like there are cobwebs here.. Who's in?

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  16. doll (retired blogger)July 23, 2009 at 9:45 AM

    one will always have weakness for an ex..i understand that...when boo an i were on break we kept having sex like no man's biz...but i dare say determination...cut him completely from ur life...till you get to a point you can say NO

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  17. prettykayAugust 18, 2009 at 3:33 AM

    ex boos are NOT supposed to have free passes but it's so difficult to just let them go... the best we can do is ignore him. dON'T BE TOO HARD on urself hun..... we all have a lil case of the ex. just don't let him hold u down

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  18. Nsoromma...Child of the HeavensOctober 11, 2009 at 9:31 AM

    It's not a free pass but they usually know u so well, and you them that it might as well be a free pass. They know ur weaknesses, plus there's the dangerous line of love and hate versus. a closeness which is hard to deny. Oh exs! Three months is a good stretch, this is just a temporary, minor setback.

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